A child arrangements solicitor helps parents resolve disputes about where a child lives and how much time they spend with each parent after separation. If you are struggling to agree arrangements, or you need a legally binding Child Arrangements Order, a specialist solicitor can guide you through the process with clarity and focus on your child’s best interests.
Child arrangements issues are often emotionally charged. Legal advice at the right time can reduce conflict, protect your position, and help avoid unnecessary court action.
What Does a Child Arrangements Solicitor Do?
A child arrangements solicitor is a family law specialist who advises and represents parents in matters relating to children following separation or divorce. Their role includes advising on rights and responsibilities, helping parents reach agreement, and dealing with the family court where required.
In practice, a child arrangements solicitor will:
- Explain how child arrangements law works in England and Wales
- Advise you on realistic outcomes and court expectations
- Help negotiate arrangements directly or through mediation
- Prepare and submit court applications, including the C100 form
- Represent you at hearings if an agreement cannot be reached
- Deal with complex or urgent situations such as relocation or enforcement
The overriding principle in all cases is the child’s welfare. Solicitors frame advice and arguments around what the court considers to be in the child’s best interests.

What Is a Child Arrangements Order?
A Child Arrangements Order is a legally binding court order that sets out:
- Where a child lives
- When and how they spend time with each parent
- Contact arrangements during school terms, holidays, and special occasions
These orders replace older concepts such as residence and contact orders. Once made, both parents must follow the terms unless the order is varied or discharged by the court.
Child Arrangements Orders are designed to provide stability and certainty for children while ensuring both parents can maintain meaningful relationships with their child where appropriate.
Do You Need a Solicitor for a Child Arrangements Order?
It is possible to apply for a Child Arrangements Order without a solicitor, but many parents find this difficult in practice. The court process can be complex, and understanding your legal position requires specialist knowledge.
You should strongly consider instructing a child arrangements solicitor if:
- You and the other parent cannot agree
- There are safeguarding concerns or allegations
- One parent is not cooperating or withholding contact
- The case involves relocation or complex arrangements
- You feel overwhelmed by court forms or hearings
Legal advice early in the process often prevents mistakes and reduces the risk of prolonged disputes.
When Should You Hire a Child Arrangements Solicitor?
You should consider hiring a child arrangements solicitor as soon as disagreements arise, rather than waiting until matters escalate.
Common situations include:
- Disputes over living arrangements or contact schedules
- One parent refusing to allow contact
- A need to formalise informal agreements
- Concerns about a child’s safety or welfare
- Plans to move within the UK or abroad
Early legal advice can also help you understand whether mediation is suitable and what evidence may be required if court proceedings become necessary.
Mediation and the Court Process
In most cases, parents must attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before applying to court. This requirement recognises that mediation can often resolve disputes more quickly and cost-effectively than court proceedings.
A child arrangements solicitor can:
- Advise whether mediation is appropriate for your situation
- Prepare you for mediation discussions
- Confirm whether exemptions apply (such as domestic abuse cases)
- Step in if mediation is unsuccessful
If mediation does not result in agreement, your solicitor will guide you through the court process, from the initial hearing to any final order. The court will always prioritise the welfare of the child when making decisions.
Can One Parent Refuse 50/50 Arrangements?
There is no automatic right to a 50/50 split of time with children. The court looks at what arrangement best meets the child’s needs, considering factors such as:
- The child’s age and developmental needs
- Each parent’s ability to care for the child
- The practical arrangements (distance between homes, schooling)
- The child’s existing routine and stability
- Any safety concerns
A parent cannot simply refuse shared care without reason. However, equal time may not be ordered if it is impractical due to distance or schooling, there are safeguarding concerns, it would disrupt the child’s stability, or the parents cannot communicate effectively.
A child arrangements solicitor helps present relevant evidence and ensure the court considers all welfare factors appropriately.
How Much Does a Child Arrangements Solicitor Cost?
Costs vary depending on complexity, urgency, and whether the case proceeds to court. Understanding potential costs upfront helps you budget and make informed decisions.
Typical costs include:
- The court application fee (currently £232)
- Solicitor fees, charged hourly or on a fixed-fee basis
- Additional costs if reports or multiple hearings are required
- Potential costs orders if the court considers your conduct unreasonable
Many solicitors offer initial consultations at fixed fees, and some provide legal aid for those who qualify financially. A solicitor should explain likely costs clearly at the outset and discuss cost-effective options where possible.
Finding the Right Child Arrangements Solicitor
When looking for a solicitor to help with child arrangements, consider the following factors:
- Experience in children and family law – Look for specialists who regularly handle child arrangement cases
- Clear, practical advice – Avoid solicitors who make unrealistic promises or encourage unnecessary conflict
- A client-focused approach – Choose someone who listens to your concerns and explains options clearly
- Transparent fees – Ensure you understand costs upfront and any funding options available
The right solicitor will balance firmness in protecting your position with a constructive approach that prioritises your child’s wellbeing. They should be able to explain complex legal concepts in plain English and help you navigate both the emotional and practical challenges involved.
FAQs About Child Arrangements Solicitors
Do I need a solicitor for a Child Arrangements Order?
You are not legally required to use a solicitor, but legal advice is strongly recommended if there is disagreement, complexity, or court involvement.
What does a child arrangements solicitor do differently from a general family solicitor?
They specialise in disputes involving children, focusing on welfare principles, safeguarding, and court expectations specific to child arrangements cases.
How long does a Child Arrangements Order take?
Simple cases can take a few months. More complex cases may take longer, especially if expert reports or multiple hearings are required.
Can a Child Arrangements Order be changed later?
Yes. Orders can be varied if circumstances change significantly or the arrangements no longer work for the child.
Is mediation always required before court?
Usually yes, unless exemptions apply such as domestic abuse, urgency, or if you live abroad.
Can grandparents apply for a Child Arrangements Order?
In some cases, grandparents may apply, but they often need permission from the court first and must demonstrate a significant relationship with the child.
What if the other parent breaches a Child Arrangements Order?
You may apply to court for enforcement. Options include warning letters, enforcement orders, or in serious cases, committal proceedings.
Does the court listen to the child's wishes?
The court may consider a child's views depending on their age and maturity, usually with input from Cafcass (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service).
Speak to a Child Arrangements Solicitor
If you are facing uncertainty about your child’s living or contact arrangements, early legal advice can make a meaningful difference. A child arrangements solicitor can help you understand your options, reduce conflict, and work towards arrangements that support your child’s wellbeing.
Child arrangement disputes can be emotionally draining for everyone involved, especially children. Professional legal guidance helps ensure decisions are made with clear heads and proper consideration of all relevant factors.
At Judge Law, our experienced family law team understands the challenges parents face during separation. We provide compassionate, practical advice focused on achieving the best outcomes for children while protecting your parental rights.
Contact Judge Law today to discuss your situation confidentially and explore how we can help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Your child’s future is too important to navigate alone.




